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Saturday, July 26, 2014
Monday, July 21, 2014
Here lately I have been questioning "forever love" and it's true existence in this life. I've learned over the years that we all have a choice for this type of love. However, the choice is not always ours to make. Sometimes one half of the relationship wants to make it last forever and the other half wants out. I don't know what it's like to be married but I hope one day I do know and I hope one day I will know exactly what forever love is. I don't know if I will get married and wake up in 30 or 40 years to a partner who wants out. All I know is that I can't and will not give up on the hope that there is a relationship that will outlast any trials and tribulations life brings. I refuse to let go of that dream that there is that one person who I will find in life who will stand by my side, and I his, through anything and everything and do it holding hands. I have to continue to pray that I will find somebody who will always choose to say yes to me unconditionally and no to a love with conditions.
I won't always make the right choices and I won't always wear a size 3 (clearing throat or 5) and I won't always be pleasant and neither will life. So, all I can hope for is that the person I choose to love will also choose to love me unconditionally. I know love is a gamble.....it's a big big chance we take but I am in this to win it. I am in this life to have the life that God intended on me having no matter what the risk and I certainly intend on having the type of marriage God intended. The world has turned love and marriage into a temporary season. Marriage is not a season we go through, it's a life long commitment we make to God. We are to love our spouses the way God loves the Church and that is unconditionally!
"Love is not determined by the one being loved but rather by the one choosing to love."
"Unconditional love will not be swayed by time or circumstance."
What a concept, huh? Isn't that what we all want? Isn't that what we all desire with every ounce of breath in us? Even the hardest of hearts just wants to be loved. It's not just the feeling or action of being loved either but it is the ability to trust somebody. It's hard to put yourself out there and risk being hurt. So, who doesn't want to find that one person that through all the garbage in life can just give that one amazing magical most needed thing in the world.....love.
So, if you are currently married, look at your spouse today and recommit yourself to fall in love over and over and over again with without conditions. If you are single, keep the faith and know God has AMAZING plans for you and your heart!
Saturday, July 19, 2014
"If you're not careful, jealousy slithers like a viper into your heart and strikes your motivations and relationships."
I learned a while back what jealousy can do. It eats at one's soul and can literally change somebody's personality. Jealousy takes away our peace and our love from others and replaces it with darkness and evil. Jealousy literally will slither like a viper into our hearts and kill amazing relationships.
"If you don't diffuse your anger by learning to love others, you may eventually begin plotting against them. The Bible says that envy leads to fighting, quarreling, and every evil thing (James 3:16, 4:1-2)."
So many quarrels between people are rooted from jealousy. I look back on many of my arguments with girlfriends and I realize that one or the other rooted these arguments through jealousy. Love is about cheering one another on through good times and supporting one another through bad times. Life isn't a competition. Life is a gift to be shared with people we care about, so why allow envy to take place in our relationships?
I have learned over the years that NOBODY'S life is perfect. We are all blessed in different ways and we all have struggles of different kinds. One person might struggle with school but is amazing at playing a sport while that person who is good at a sport struggles with school and vice versa. Stop comparing yourself to other people and love them and most importantly love yourself. Most of the time envy would not take root if one had security in themselves.
So, how does one let go of the envy if it's already there? Simple, take it to the cross. God already knows that ugliness that is going on inside and He wants you to come to Him and willingly hand it over to Him. He knows your struggles and He knows what is already going on inside so just be honest with yourself and Him. Share your heart and why you are feeling the way you are feeling and then hand it all over to Him. Trust me, the relief you feel when you do this is AMAZING! Not only have you handed your cares to our amazing Father but you also allow room for love in your heart to come back in. Jealousy pushes that love to the side and takes over. Don't let that happen. Give it to God to handle and walk away feeling at peace and loving again!!!
Love is about encouragement and support. Love is happy for another's successes and not jealous. I dare you to not be jealous today!!!! Love is waiting just around the corner for you!