How much do you know about your mate? How often do you talk? How often to you ask questions? How often do you attempt to understand them? How well do you really know them?
"Good understanding produces favor." Proverbs 13:15
The one thing about really learning somebody and understanding their beliefs and thoughts is that you start to become in sync with their way of life. You understand why they do and say certain things. This can even at times save you from an argument. Sometimes we tend to take things the wrong way with out understanding the root of it. Whether it's an action or words. When you truly understand somebody it becomes second nature to "get them" and to understand their actions and words.
Love should call you to dig deep and really get to your mate's soul. Love calls you to draw out all that you can so that you can learn them and understand them better.
"By wisdom a house is built , and by understanding it is established ; and by knowledge it is filled with all precious and pleasant riches." Proverbs 24:3-4
It is important to know your mate's fears, dreams, goals, and anything else that drives your mate to live each day to the fullest. They need that constant support and to know that you are their biggest cheerleader and comforter through all!
Dare to understand.....seek it!
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